5 Perfect treats for the Busy Bae

                                 5 Perfect treats for the Busy Bae

Hmmm!!!! After the initial rush of adrenaline that comes with meeting a special someone wears off, many can hardly maintain a beautiful relationship with a busy person. You start taking even the slightest umbrage at the cliché excuses he/she gives for not keeping in touch (....I’m really busy) but for the very few who understand that been busy doesn’t equate feigning hard work to avoid commitment.

Rather than nagging and complaining, remember that the working life in Lagos is as depressing and stressful as you can imagine. From having to wake up in the wee hours of the morning to prepare for work to applying your make up in those yellow rickety Lagos buses plying roads with large pot holes while listening to some religious fanatics screeching about hell and all the doom that awaits ladies in miniskirts. All that doesn’t even match the horror of having to sit in traffic for hours on your way to work, whether your office is at Victoria Island or Abule Egba, the traffic in Lagos is a respecter of no one.

You should seize the May Day holiday to spoil and appreciate that special hard worker in your life. This is a perfect way to say “Baby, I know you are working hard to make life better for us.”

Remember the best way to honestly let someone special know how much you would love it if they’ll make time for you is sometimes by showing them just how to.

Let’s take a quick look at some of the perfect treats for the busy Bae:

1.     Attend the ASA Live in Lagos Concert:

Asa, a Nigerian French Singer and Songwriter is a renowned artist with three internationally acclaimed hit albums. She is bringing her Bed of Stone Tour to her homeland and set to perform some of her hit tracks in her first ever concert in Nigeria on Worker’s Day. This a perfect opportunity to catch some fun as love birds this holiday at the Eko Convention Centre of Eko Hotel and Suites, Lagos.

2.     Make Room for Rest:

Treat that special person to a day of fun and relaxation, enjoy a pampering session at a Spa or a fitness centre. You can also spend the day enjoying a meal together and watching movies indoor.

3.     Surprise him with tickets to the Celebrity Fan Challenge:

If he is a football fanatic, here is an opportunity to relish a true football experience with the boo. Surprise him with VIP tickets to watch A list Nigerian artistes slug it out in support of their favourite football club in front of a panel of judges and their fans at the Oriental Hotel. You can enjoy a bottle of champagne and take as many selfies and as you would like with the celebrities in attendance.

4.     A Dinner Date is always a good Idea:

Treat your special other to a surprise dinner date at one of the best restaurants in town or an Alfresco dining experience at a restaurant with a scenic ambiance. An evening spent indulging your taste buds and a bit of wine is just the right way to set the tone off for a romantic night time.

5.     A weekend getaway to an affordable Lagos Hotel or Lodge:

You don’t have to break a bank to plan the perfect weekend treat. If you can’t afford to splurge on fancy hotels like Four Point by Sheraton, stick to an affordable yet comfortable accommodation where you two can spend a weekend away from the hassle of a busy life. You will be surprised to find out you can even get an affordable accommodation in Lekki, one of the highbrow areas of Lagos at by checking online.

5 ways to survive in Nigeria Today

Whoever could have predicted the state of the economy today after the change we so desperately sought after in the country was granted!

With a new government and the aggression with which it fought the corrupt state which has eaten deep into the system today, we all started living in a fool’s paradise. Thinking the price of petroleum will probably fall to 20 naira per litre, thinking we’ll be privy to electricity at least 20 hours in a day or that a dollar will be the equivalent of a naira.

We concluded things couldn’t be as bad, since we were considered the largest economy in Africa, an oil rich country, the purported giant of Africa, but alas, the fuel queues wouldn’t disappear, there was no hope in getting PHCN to turn on power for at least 20 mins in a week, the heat emasnating from the sun rays has become increasing unbearable, well-paying jobs have become scarce and the foreign exchange rate has become heartbreakingly high.

Hence, our survival instinct has to kick in. Here are a few tips on how to survive in the face of the economic instability plaguing our beloved country:

1.       Start a business to address unemployment:

If you already have a job, please do everything you can to keep it, as times are hard. However, if you are currently unemployed, the best way to tackle unemployment is through personal empowerment. Entrepreneurship is key, start something today. Even if it’s a small trading business, monetizing your writing, event coordination or planning, get something done.

Tap into the various industries at your disposal, Lagosian love to party, get into a catering business, start small but who knows, you could probably end up catering to bigger events or even be hired as an interior decorator in the homes of some affluent people living in the upscale residential areas of Lekki or Victoria Island.

2.        Minimize or stop foreign purchase for now:

I know this is no easy feat, but you have to buy Nigerian to grow the naira. The consolation here though is that our indigenous fashion designer for instance are doing a tremendous job right now. You can get your fashion apparels from stores like shopmaju or the 5k store. Get your household items, appliances or accessories from online stores in Nigeria. Stick to Jumia or Konga right now, to avoid the overbearing cost of importation.

3.       Use cheap hotels only:

If you have to travel round the country, avoid staying in luxury hotels in Nigeria for now. If you need a place to stay close to the airport, stick to affordable hotels in Ikeja, like the Ibis Hotel Ikeja which lies in close proximity to the Murtala Muhammed Airport and Ikeja City Mall.

The hotels in Lagos and Abuja are considered to be on the high end of the cost spectrum but you can get affordable accommodations like the Bolton White Hotel and Apartment online through Jovago, Africa’s no 1 hotel booking portal. You are assured of great deals and amazing discounts on all hotel across the country.

4.       Maintain the Nigerian sense of humor:

While we continue to struggle with the seemingly unabating economic hardship, our will to survive should be the greatest resolve. We must ensure that we retain the Nigerian sense of humor, for which we are well known. Humour is a sure way to cope with all the hassle and it lifts all the pressure off us.

5.       Fight the heat:

To protect yourself from the health consequences of the heat wave, stick to wearing light and loosely fitted clothing, drink plenty of water, use a deodorant spray and wear sunglasses.

Dating a Lagos Girl

As a major fan of Joro Olumofin and an ardent reader of the many real life situation entries he showcases on his Instagram handle (where he has people send in mails detailing their experiences, problems and seeking advice from Instagram users) an exciting issue caught my attention. A young man sent in a mail explaining how dissatisfied he felt about Abuja girls who clearly wanted him for material gains and sought for reader’s advice on his intention to move to Lagos in search of a young, classy and industrious lady. He wanted tips on how to treat a Lagos girl.

Hence, I thought it would be perfect to give out tips on the perfect way to treat a Lagos babe.

1.     Get her a gift just because its Tuesday:

I know many guys have been taken through hell and back by girls who are all about the money but that shouldn’t deter you from spend a lil something on the girl who catches your fancy. A thoughtful present is all that counts, not the cost of it. Send her flowers (just because…), you don’t have to wait for a special day of the month or year. Show a Lagos girl how thoughtful and kind you can be.

2.     Take her on dates:

You know the excitement and rush that comes with finding a new person you just click with. You have to make an effort even after getting the sparks ignited. No matter how independent a Lagos girl comes off looking, even the uber classy girls and working professionals love to be treated to a good time by a gentleman. Get tickets for two to see the latest movie at the cinema, take her paint balling or treat her to a good time at the next musical concert.

3.     Send Romantic texts:

Romantic texts and traditional hand written notes never go out of style. Texting is a lot better than sending those annoying PING! PING!! PING!!!.

Avoid sending cheesy texts about how the sun rises and set on her. Lol! Be creative and send something straight from the heart.

4.     Don’t just say the word, be the word:

Depending on what activity she likes, ensure you always show a form of interest in the things she loves. Be considerate, encourage her to grow and don’t be a stalker, you know what they say about finding someone you like but still giving them enough space to go into the world and trust that they still be yours.

Don’t say “I love you” if you don’t mean it, be her biggest fan and offer constructive criticism. Do the little things, pick her up as soon as she arrive from a trip and book a nearby Lagos airport hotel for her to spend the night.

5.     Spend a romantic weekend at one of the top hotels in Lagos:

A weekend getaway is not an excuse to smash!!! It is a perfect way to get acquainted with the babe and offers you close quarters to indulge in fun loving activities. Treat her to a spectacular time at one the biggest 5 Star Hotels in Nigeria like the Lagos Oriental Hotel, Protea Hotel or Intercontinental Hotel.

Sheraton Hotel Lagos is a perfect respite from the Lagos crowd, it boasts of excellent service, amazing buffet restaurants, Golf Range training, Tennis Courts and a Club Lounge with various benefits you can take advantage of during your stay.

Disclaimer: These tips are not your go to guide if you want a Lagos babe to fall instantly at your feet, it takes time, persistence and courage.