As a major fan of Joro Olumofin and an ardent reader of the
many real life situation entries he showcases on his Instagram handle (where he
has people send in mails detailing their experiences, problems and seeking
advice from Instagram users) an exciting issue caught my attention.
A young man sent in a mail explaining how dissatisfied he felt about Abuja girls who clearly wanted him for material gains and sought for reader’s
advice on his intention to move to Lagos in search of a young, classy and industrious lady. He wanted tips on
how to treat a Lagos girl.
Hence, I thought it would be perfect to give out
tips on the perfect way to treat a Lagos babe.
1. Get her a gift just because its
Tuesday:
I know many guys have been taken through hell and
back by girls who are all about the money but that shouldn’t deter you from
spend a lil something on the girl who catches your fancy. A thoughtful present
is all that counts, not the cost of it. Send her flowers (just because…), you
don’t have to wait for a special day of the month or year. Show a Lagos girl
how thoughtful and kind you can be.
2. Take her on dates:
You know the excitement and rush that comes with
finding a new person you just click with. You have to make an effort even after
getting the sparks ignited. No matter how independent a Lagos girl comes off
looking, even the uber classy girls and working professionals love to be treated
to a good time by a gentleman. Get tickets for two to see the latest movie at
the cinema, take her paint balling or treat her to a good time at the next musical
concert.
3. Send Romantic texts:
Romantic texts and traditional hand written notes
never go out of style. Texting is a lot better than sending those annoying
PING! PING!! PING!!!.
Avoid sending cheesy texts about how the sun rises
and set on her. Lol! Be creative and send something straight from the heart.
4.
Don’t just say the word, be the word:
Depending on what activity she likes, ensure you
always show a form of interest in the things she loves. Be considerate,
encourage her to grow and don’t be a stalker, you know what they say about
finding someone you like but still giving them enough space to go into the
world and trust that they still be yours.
Don’t say “I love you” if you don’t mean it, be her
biggest fan and offer constructive criticism. Do the little things, pick her up
as soon as she arrive from a trip and book a nearby Lagos airport
hotel for her to spend the night.
5. Spend a romantic weekend at one of the
top hotels in Lagos:
A weekend getaway is not an excuse to smash!!! It
is a perfect way to get acquainted with the babe and offers you close quarters
to indulge in fun loving activities. Treat her to a spectacular time at one the
biggest 5 Star
Hotels in Nigeria like the Lagos Oriental Hotel, Protea
Hotel or Intercontinental Hotel.
Sheraton Hotel Lagos is a perfect respite from
the Lagos crowd, it boasts of excellent service, amazing buffet restaurants,
Golf Range training, Tennis Courts and a Club Lounge with various benefits you
can take advantage of during your stay.
Disclaimer: These tips are not your go to guide if
you want a Lagos babe to fall instantly at your feet, it takes time,
persistence and courage.
Nice piece, I acknowledge your disclaimer. Dating a Lagos Girl is quite different from dating babes from other states in Nigeria. Keep soaring author.
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